Category Archives: mentoring

Successful para-athlete and mentor participates in Rodman Ride for Kids

The following guest post was submitted by Partners for Youth with Disabilities, one of MMP’s Partner-level programs that participated in the Rodman Ride for Kids on Sept. 29.

Juan Martin Botero, Partners for Youth with Disabilities mentor and Cambridge resident, rode for the fourth consecutive year for Partners for Youth with Disabilities (PYD) in the Rodman Ride for Kids on Sept. 29. Botero raced a 25-mile cycling course, and rode with William Connors, a PYD Board member, and Steve Taub, a first-time rider and supporter of PYD.

In 2010, Botero finished the 25-mile Rodman Ride course in 3:20, twice as fast as his personal goal. He was diagnosed with Ataxia more than a decade ago, and just over five years ago began using a wheelchair for greater mobility. The neurological dysfunction brought on by Ataxia affects gross motor coordination, so Botero uses adaptive equipment such as his recumbent bike, the Greenspeed Tadpole, for cycling training and racing, as well as his daily commute. Such equipment enables him to continue following his passions for the outdoors and travel, which culminated in his climbs in recent years to Mt. Kilimanjaro’s summit and the bottom of the Grand Canyon.

Botero wants to encourage young people facing challenges: “For this reason I believe in Partners for Youth with Disabilities. I became a mentor because I hope I can share my strengths and my stories, and I can show them that we can all climb Kilimanjaro in our own terms.” He has served as a mentor through the Mentor Match program at PYD since 2009.

Team PYD can be found at www.rodmanrideforkids.org under “Juan Botero,” “William Connors,” or “Steve Taub” as participants. For more information on PYD, please go to www.pyd.org.

Mentor highlight: Patrick Stephan from Big Brothers Big Sisters of Central MA/Metrowest

As part of our 20 Challenges in 2012 campaign, we are highlighting 20 inspirational mentors from across the Commonwealth. Mentors are some of the most humble and giving people. But what got them interested in becoming a mentor and what has the experience meant to them? By telling their stories, we hope to encourage more people like them to become mentors. Have an idea for a great mentor for us to highlight? Contact Lauren Winfree at lwinfree@massmentors.org.

Our next mentor is Patrick Stephan from Big Brothers Big Sisters of Central MA/Metrowest. This feature was guest-written by Gail Melgren, systems manager/match support specialist at BBBSCMMW.

Pat and his mentee, Justin

Patrick was recruited through the Red Sox Mentoring Challenge. He was matched to his mentee Justin in 2008. Patrick has introduced Justin to several new opportunities such as attending Patriots, Celtics, Red Sox, Sharks, Tornadoes and Paw Sox games.

Patrick identified Justin’s interest in the arts and has taken him to the Hanover Theatre. They have attended Voices of Metrowest concerts and always end up on stage performing! Patrick even joined Voices of Metrowest this season. He has also sung the National Anthem for the Worcester Tornadoes.

Patrick announces the Algonquin Regional High School football and basketball games, and Justin often accompanies him. They announced our Suma Wrestling Event and they have spoken publicly about their relationship at our Taste Event. They made a video and were featured on a panel of matches for MMP at the 2011 Northeast Regional Mentoring Conference.

Patrick has assisted with homework and obtained resources to help Justin academically, and also engages Justin in helping him with yard work and other chores.

Justin wrote an essay about Patrick and won a prize to attend a Worcester Tornadoes game and participate in on the field pre-game activities. Unfortunately, Justin was unable to attend, but Patrick was determined to have Justin by his side. He made a huge cut-out of Justin and brought it to the game and on the field with him!

Patrick has been an outstanding mentor: he is consistent and devoted, fun-loving, responsible and active. He has the ability to incorporate teachable moments with fun-filled activities. Patrick is successful, intelligent, caring, and funny. Patrick and Justin have a fantastic mentoring relationship!

BBBSCMM’s mission is to enhance the quality of life of children at-risk, and their families, by matching these children in professionally supported mentoring relationships with responsible and caring volunteers. www.bbbscm.org

Mentor highlight: Lynn Johnson from Hyde Square Task Force

As part of our 20 Challenges in 2012 campaign, we are highlighting 20 inspirational mentors from across the Commonwealth. Mentors are some of the most humble and giving people. But what got them interested in becoming a mentor and what has the experience meant to them? By telling their stories, we hope to encourage more people like them to become mentors. Have an idea for a great mentor for us to highlight? Contact Lauren Winfree at lwinfree@massmentors.org

This guest post was written by Karen Boss, manager of communications and individual funding at Hyde Square Task Force.

Lynn Johnson is one of 77 mentors who mentored 101 Hyde Square Task Force (HSTF) youth in grades 9 through 12 this year. She teaches in the history department at Boston College and during her daughter’s college process, she “was blown away by how complicated it has become” and wanted to help others.

She knew about Hyde Square Task Force because students she taught have volunteered with HSTF in the past and liked their experience. She originally made a one-year commitment, but like many HSTF mentors, will return next year.

Lynn says she likes seeing the work HSTF is accomplishing, and says “walking into the building is great – there is so much good energy there.” Lynn became a donor this year as well, explaining that “getting to know staff and youth made me want to do a little bit more for the organization.”

She’ll be assigned a new mentee next year, since her current mentee, Merilin Castillo, will graduate. “It’s been a great experience. We’ve learned from each other,” she says.

Lynn is currently working on a book about the history of immigration in Boston, and she’s learned some inside information from Merilin, whose parents immigrated to Boston from the Dominican Republic.

“I’m looking forward to being a mentor again next year,” Lynn says. “Mentoring is critical. Young people who have been mentored have a level of confidence and get something out of their education that others don’t.”

Hyde Square Task Force’s mission is to develop the skills of youth and their families so that they are empowered to enhance their own lives and build a strong and vibrant urban community. www.hydesquare.org

Mentor highlight: Madison Horl from Big Brothers Big Sisters of Central MA/Metrowest

As part of our 20 Challenges in 2012 campaign, we are highlighting 20 inspirational mentors from across the Commonwealth. Mentors are some of the most humble and giving people. But what got them interested in becoming a mentor and what has the experience meant to them? By telling their stories, we hope to encourage more people like them to become mentors. Have an idea for a great mentor for us to highlight? Contact Lauren Winfree at lwinfree@massmentors.org

Our first mentor is Madison Horl from Big Brothers Big Sisters of Central MA/Metrowest.

  1. Tell us briefly about yourself
    My name is Madison Horl and I’m an intern at Big Brothers Big Sisters. My mentee is Belinda Peprah, and she is 11-years-old. We are matched through the  Grafton Street School in Worcester.
  2. Who was/is your mentor?
    My mentor is my father. From a very young age my dad taught me to go after my dreams, never quit, and strive to make everyone around me a little more happy.
  3. Why is mentoring important to you?
    I believe that “to whom much is given, much is expected.” I have been blessed with wonderful role models, and countless opportunities throughout my life that have put me on the path to success. Through mentoring it is my hope that I have and will continue to inspire my little and provide her with the support she needs to  reach her fullest potential.
  4. What inspired you to become a mentor?
    Honestly, I joined Big Brothers Big Sisters because I was incredibly homesick. I wanted to become involved in the city of Worcester, and as the oldest of four children I knew that I could easily relate to children.
  5. Did you find that you had any ideas about mentoring that were proven true or untrue once you started your match relationship?
    During pre-match trainings I learned that mentees are often hesitant to trust their mentors from the get-go. I saw this first hand with my little, who took some time to truly open up. But, throughout that period of time we were able to get to know each other and build a friendship that is now incredibly strong.
  6. What do you think is the most important thing a mentor can do for a child?
    I think that it is incredibly important for a mentor to be a consistent source of support for their mentee. Children, especially those with inconsistent family situations, find solace in knowing they have someone they can rely on for company and advice.
  7. What is the most rewarding experience you’ve had mentoring?
    My most rewarding experience as a mentor has been watching my little grow up into an incredible young woman. Belinda has impressive manners, and is able to hold herself in a crowds of children and adults alike. Hearing Belinda talk about wanting to be the first person in her family to be college educated warms my heart.
  8. What is the best advice you’ve given your mentee/what is something important you have taught him/her?
    Throughout the past year I have brought Belinda back to campus with me many times. During her visits, I taught her to always firmly shake an adults hand while introducing herself. Most adults are incredibly impressed by her poise and confidence, and she absolutely loves meeting new people. Deep down I hope that her presence and dynamic personality will help her to succeed in whatever career path she chooses.
  9. What advice would you give to other adults looking to become mentors?
    In order to become a good mentor, it is important to be open to challenges, but remain consistently supportive for a mentee. When given the privilege of mentoring someone you the opportunity to help someone else realize the potential that they might otherwise not have noticed.

The continuum of mentoring across generations

This post was written by MMP’s Program Manager of the Highland Street Corps Ambassadors of Mentoring, Mallory St. Brice

Mallory St. Brice

Last week, I participated in a panel at Wheelock College, entitled, “A Change Across Generations: The Changing Nonprofit Landscape.”   The purpose of the panel was to discuss how the modern workplace now consists of three generations of workers (Baby Boomers, Generation X, and Generation Y), each with potentially different styles and approaches to leadership, and how this may transform the nonprofit landscape.

I happen to straddle the lines of both Generation X and Generation Y (I was born in 1982, the end of the assumed “X” generation, and I am the child of Baby Boomers), and was able to offer my perspectives as a young nonprofit professional who has served in the sector for almost eight years.  I operate the Highland Street Corps Ambassadors of Mentoring program at MMP, and in addition to expanding high-quality youth mentoring, a secondary goal of the program is to provide meaningful service opportunities and training to individuals in preparation for them to become future nonprofit leaders.

Something I realized from participating in the panel is that there is a major opportunity for nonprofits to capitalize on this fresh level of diversity that exists in our workforce by developing their future leaders through mentoring.  But many organizations maintain they are constrained by budgets, or are fearful of investing in talent that will leave the eventually agency (or are just too busy) and this seems to be a missed opportunity.

As we discussed the potential differences and approaches to work and leadership between the generations, I couldn’t help but think about how this all connects to mentoring.  When we were asked if there are different strengths that each generation brings to the work environment, we all spoke to the many ways knowledge sharing can occur in the workplace for the greater good of the organization. Older, more seasoned employees bring profound knowledge in their respected fields, and possibly historical knowledge of an agency which can be valuable in planning processes.  They also bring a level of depth, knowledge and perspective that one can only gain over time – some may call it wisdom.  They are usually able to think more critically and on both a macro and micro level.

Recent college grads bring new energy and perspectives, and especially during these fiscally dismal times, they can help to re-energize other staff around the mission of the organization. They tend to be able to grasp modern technology more easily and can help an organization integrate the use of such technology to operate more efficiently and effectively. I believe they are, in a way, more connected to and aware of world issues because of their connection to technology, which puts more information at their fingertips.

Gen X’ers like me, are in the middle and bridge the gap between Generation Y and the Baby Boom generation that raised us. This diversity of experiences and perspectives can be an asset to any agency because each group has something valuable to offer.

Today, nonprofits are facing record numbers of retirements of executives in the very near future, but research shows that most are not investing in leadership development and that the majority of young nonprofit professionals do not see their future in the nonprofit sector.  The economy has certainly played a role in this, as it has impacted professional development budgets and cut the time people are willing to invest in developing their young staff.

It was said during the panel discussion that employers are hesitant to invest in developing their junior staff due to fear that the young Generation Y or X’ers will put in just a couple years at an agency, be trained, and take their skills somewhere else when they become a more “valuable” employee. The younger generations are seen as less stable or dependable to employers, usually because they don’t have families and mortgages for the most part. But many young people are in fact willing to stay at an organization if they feel like their employers care about them enough to invest in their futures and development and growth within the agency. At MMP, a handful of my colleagues and I are under the age of 35 and have been with the agency for at least two or three years. There may not be opportunities to move up through the ranks at every organization, but there are ways to foster loyalty among young staff.

While employers cannot totally control how long an employee chooses to stay,  organizations can employ valuable practices to help staff develop professionally and feel more connected. For example, they can assign senior staff to mentor  new or junior staff. Or, they can create a development plan that allows junior staff to take on additional responsibilities over time or lead a special project if they perform well.

People primarily learn by “doing,” and development does not always have to happen through training. Many young professionals bounce around from job to job every two to three years because they feel there is nothing more to learn at their agency, or because they are not able to visualize a track for growth within an organization. But mentoring is a big piece of this. Young professionals are seeking mentors now more than ever, and often have to look outside of their agencies to find one through their own networks, affinity groups or associations. They thirst for the wisdom and knowledge that the soon-to-be-retired Baby Boomers may take with them.  Things like how to handle conflicts, or how to advocate for a raise or a promotion, how to develop a professional identity, or deal with difficult staff.  They need someone who can hear their challenges and relate.

The need for a mentor does not necessarily end after high school or college. In the youth mentoring field, we always talk about “return on investment” and how investing in mentoring can positively impact families and whole communities.  Well, if organizations foster practices to invest in their young staff and mentor them to be successful, it is not only an investment for that organization, but for the nonprofit sector as a whole. After all, we are in this sector to give back and create a better world, aren’t we? As professional adults, we need to offer our wisdom to the next generation at every stage of their lives: this is the continuum of mentoring.